Published Wednesday, March 15, 2000, in the San Jose Mercury News Peacenik Miriam Patchen made people think and laugh BY LORETTA GREEN Mercury News Staff Columnist PEACE activist Miriam Patchen would have liked the way the sidewalk filled Tuesday afternoon on ``her'' corner at El Camino Real and Embarcadero Road for a ``memorial protest vigil.'' For nearly 15 years Patchen held her ground in front of the Town & Country Village shopping center in Palo Alto, where she consistently protested U.S. military intervention in other countries. Then on Monday of last week, perhaps in the manner of the hymn, ``Peace, Like a River'' took her. Jonathan Clark, who has known her from childhood, stopped at her home for his regular Wednesday visit. He found her sitting in her chair where she apparently had been reading when she died. She was 85. Through the years, those who drove El Camino on Tuesday between 3 and 5 p.m. became accustomed to seeing the slight woman with gray hair, bushy eyebrows and sky-blue eyes holding a sign about the Cuban embargo or perhaps El Salvador. Sometimes it was Nicaragua, Iraq or Yugoslavia. Drivers would either follow directions on the ``Honk for Peace'' sign or, as fellow activist Paul George put it, they would demonstrate an opposing view. George, head of the Peninsula Peace and Justice Center, brought signs to the memorial, including a few blank ones so people ``could hold traditional ones or make one to say goodbye to Miriam,'' he said. At the vigil, more cars than usual honked enthusiastically at the nearly 40 people holding signs. ``Miriam and Larry, we miss you,'' said the fruit-bordered sign Jean McFadden made. She purposely stood under a large sycamore that Patchen would always be seen leaning against with her partner Laurent Frantz in later years. ``No more mass murder in my name,'' declared white letters on a black umbrella that Constance Marsh held aloft. People knew Patchen, not only for her interest in peace, but because of her late husband, Kenneth Patchen, a renowned poet, whom she married in 1932. He died in 1972. ``She told me that when she first met Kenneth, he read her a little poem and she said, `This is a true, great poet,' and made up her mind to see that his poetry got out,'' said Purusha Obluda, who was part of a small dinner group with Miriam Patchen. Obluda remembers her as a ``feisty, independent peacenik,'' devoted to her husband's work. Also in that dinner group was Carol Maddox, an occupational therapist who has many memories with Patchen, including driving with her to San Diego during the Cuba Friendshipment where they attempted to take computers across Mexico's border. Maddox, who was at the vigil, had expected to take Miriam Patchen to San Quentin Prison for a vigil for convicted murderer Darrell Rich, slated for execution today. ``She'd go to San Quentin and I'd be wearing 20 coats and sweaters, hat and boots and she'd be standing there in her light coat and little shoes. Nothing bothered her,'' said Maddox. Patchen was accompanied for years on the corner and in life by Frantz, a constitutional scholar who held two law degrees. He helped Patchen's effort to keep her husband's work alive and died in 1998 at age 84. Clark, who grew up near the Patchens, says of her public persona that ``she was a bit of a performer.'' ``She always characterized herself in relationship to Kenneth and how she was just kind of a poet's wife,'' Clark said. ``Obviously, I don't agree. She was a very interesting person on her own and she was well-read and had her own ideas.'' As the sun began to sink Tuesday, Ken Dickman, who often drove Patchen to the corner, turned his sign toward El Camino traffic. It said: ``Miriam says, Peace for the World.'' Meanwhile, the U.S. defense secretary was visiting Vietnam, after making it clear there would be no apologies for the war. Miriam Patchen would have had something to say about that. © 2000 Mercury Center.